Six bucks and three does surrounded his treestand. With his Indiana buck tag already filled, he picked out the largest doe, settled his sight pin, and sent a razor sharp broadhead where it needed to go—just behind the front shoulder.
The doe would make his third bow kill for the season and our family couldn’t be happier. It’s evident he’s becoming a proficient hunter, and as a dad, I feel a sense of fulfillment in knowing this young man is embracing traditions others have shunned.
While a trio of perfect shot placement is impressive, I’m more inspired by my son’s attitude. (I suppose some will say I’m biased and you’re probably right—so be it.)
I’ve tried to teach my kids to view hunting as a privilege. It’s not to be treated as a video game or a Hollywood production. As hunters we respect life and at the same time understand all life is sustained by death. Hunting is taking the life of an animal.
In a world full of make believe, the realities of life and death are not always easy to pass on to your kids. So when my boy knelt beside the doe and said, “Dad, I feel so unworthy,” it had meaning.
Yes, he was excited to have made a clean kill. But there was also a side of him that realized this is not a game. Hunting is an honor granted to us by our Creator. Therefore a healthy dose of respect is also part of the experience we call hunting.
To some it’s just five words out of the mouth of a teenager, but “Dad, I feel so unworthy,” meant as much to me as another bow kill meant to my son.
6 thoughts on “Dad, I Feel So Unworthy”
Thanks for sharing, Randy. Spot on and well done, to both you and your sons. If it’s done right, it’s tough to take a life. After 30 years of hunting, it is still tough for me. Merry Christmas to you and your family!
Thanks, Al! Appreciate the kind words. Merry Christmas to you as well.
Ah, more thoughtful writing Randy. Any Hunter, any good hunter, will always have some angst when the instant comes to squeeze the trigger or finger the release. I hope I never forget or lose that feeling. Thanks. And, Merry Christmas amigo!
Thanks, Neal! Appreciate the comment. Merry Christmas to you and yours.
Thanks, Chip! Hopefully we can encouraged someone to pass on the heritage we have been given.
What a solid example you have set for your son! I can’t wait to teach my boy to hunt and for him to learn the ethics and respect that comes with it.
What age did you get your son shooting a real compound bow? My son is 3 but extremely coordinated. He can hit soft toss baseball and dribble/ shoot basketballs. He has a toy recurve bow (elastic string w/ suction cup arrowheads) that he can draw and shoot under supervision. Just looking for some input from a father who has been through the early stages of teaching his son the ways of bow hunting. Thanks again for the great article